tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post3113533112895663294..comments2024-03-27T07:18:58.033+00:00Comments on Frances Garrood: A phone call and a tragedyFrances Garroodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10614916006798375706noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-27895350810803129132012-12-12T09:40:15.314+00:002012-12-12T09:40:15.314+00:00I couldn't agree more, Frances. Sometimes my ...I couldn't agree more, Frances. Sometimes my blood runs cold at what could have happened - the piano that nearly fell on our son, the car I didn't see coming from the right because it was hidden by the A pillar of my car - the list goes on.<br /><br />New Zealand hasn't moved (at least not here) today and there's been no more tornadoes. Life goes on (which I regard generally speaking as a bonus). Thanks for asking.GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10289400344300258872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-91598859046528583382012-12-12T09:12:16.925+00:002012-12-12T09:12:16.925+00:00I get your points, GB, but with so many situations...I get your points, GB, but with so many situations in life I feel a "there but for the Grace of God" thing. I haven't fallen asleep at the wheel or made prank phone calls, but at other times I have done things that might have had dire consequences, with no I'll intent.<br /><br />How's New Zealand?Frances Garroodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10614916006798375706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-29220921390865860092012-12-11T23:58:07.780+00:002012-12-11T23:58:07.780+00:00Thanks, Rosemary. I'm glad you agree.Thanks, Rosemary. I'm glad you agree. Frances Garroodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10614916006798375706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-10431427330027207942012-12-11T23:02:21.875+00:002012-12-11T23:02:21.875+00:00Yes and my point is that I think that the Australi...Yes and my point is that I think that the Australians could easily have foreseen the hurt they would do (though not the outcome any more than the chap who went to sleep at the wheel could have seen the outcome). A well known Antipodean prankster of 40 years was on the radio here yesterday and said that he felt that the Australian pranksters went to far and should have realised that people were going to get hurt along the way. I agree with him.GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10289400344300258872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-22883310704760963782012-12-11T22:53:24.516+00:002012-12-11T22:53:24.516+00:00Couldn't agree more, Frances. We live in a ske...Couldn't agree more, Frances. We live in a skewed world at times. Definitely think Ross and Brand bigger culprits - but I've never liked pranks of any kind very much.Rosemary Gemmellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09311840205603508422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-49556300098105342872012-12-11T22:39:29.003+00:002012-12-11T22:39:29.003+00:00Meike, you need to know the whole story really. Bu...Meike, you need to know the whole story really. But it was a prank that ended in tragedy, and I think lessons will have been learnt (though that's no consolation to the family).Frances Garroodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10614916006798375706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-41280490074631523322012-12-11T22:37:25.745+00:002012-12-11T22:37:25.745+00:00Thanks, Olivia.Thanks, Olivia.Frances Garroodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10614916006798375706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-25752348537295162342012-12-11T22:35:58.645+00:002012-12-11T22:35:58.645+00:00I'm glad you agree, Fran.I'm glad you agree, Fran.Frances Garroodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10614916006798375706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-51115060903298409682012-12-11T22:35:31.443+00:002012-12-11T22:35:31.443+00:00I'm not sure I entirely follow you, GB, but I ...I'm not sure I entirely follow you, GB, but I think my points were twofold. One, was to do with cause and (unintended) effect; the other, with deliberate cruelty, as in Brand and Ross. I doubt whether the Australians will get over what they have done that soon. They sounded totally distraught on the radio yesterday. But who am I? These are just my opinions/ feelings. Frances Garroodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10614916006798375706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-63063326706979240652012-12-11T20:52:47.507+00:002012-12-11T20:52:47.507+00:00I think there are very big differences here France...I think there are very big differences here Frances. <br /><br />Firstly manslaughter is death caused by the unintended consequence of an intended action. I assume that the jury reached the verdict that because they felt the driver of the car went to sleep at the wheel when he knew he was unfit to drive because he was too tired. I think evidence was led to that effect. <br /><br />That is very different from a prank call which is intended to have a victim and the discomfiture of Andrew Sachs was the despicable and intended intention of Ross and Brand. Personally I cannot think of a harsh enough punishment although, presumably, there are sick people out there who found it amusing.<br /><br />Living in New Zealand at the moment I am finding a great many people who thought the latest prank call was very funny and are blaming the British media for the Nurses death. As a person who finds these prank calls puerile it seems to me a very obvious consequence that the people who receive the call will be the butt of jokes and snide remarks for the rest of their lives (the Michael Fish syndrome). You know well that nurses are not generally equipped to filter out moronic pranks: they have a much higher purpose in life. The hospital should arguably have had systems in place to cope with these things. I can well see how the nurse could not live with what she apparently perceived was an intolerable failing. I hope that the two pranksters live with this for the rest of their lives but they will have forgotten all about what they no doubt regard as collateral damage it in a few weeks. GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10289400344300258872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-36564463712915258212012-12-11T19:44:23.312+00:002012-12-11T19:44:23.312+00:00You are talking in riddles, Frances - I have reall...You are talking in riddles, Frances - I have really no idea what phone calls and tragedies you're on about here. But I understand that someone took a prank call and committed suicide (??? why would anyone commit suicide because of a phone call...?), and any suicide is a tragedy to those who cared about the person who decided that there was nothing worth living for in their lives anymore.Librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704656564078750607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-10972647200422723742012-12-11T18:54:16.233+00:002012-12-11T18:54:16.233+00:00We've just been talking about this, Frances, a...We've just been talking about this, Frances, and I agree with you. I think the Aussie radio station itself was more to blame, for allowing the conversation to be broadcast without asking for permission (apparently against the law in Oz.) The pranksters were immature and silly but didn't envisage anyone getting hurt, let alone killed. I hated the whole Russell Brand thing, though, and agree he got off lightly - it was nasty.Sheila Nortonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13997206301877289623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3132582821010486689.post-14288882526791098282012-12-11T18:48:33.824+00:002012-12-11T18:48:33.824+00:00I agree completely. Ross and Brand had an actual ...I agree completely. Ross and Brand had an actual target. Fran Hillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07935088780461825341noreply@blogger.com